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Being Proactive: Take Your Power Back

September 22, 2015 by Dolores

No matter what you are feeling or how well you take care of yourself, it is important to see a doctor, even for an occasional check-up. But sometimes that experience can be uncomfortable. Indeed exposing your body and lifestyle choices to a stranger can be intimidating is not always easy, but as a patient you have rights and, more importantly, you have power.

Doctors need patients. Their job is to help you to get better. Remember that, first and foremost.

Why Do We Find Doctors Intimidating

Yes, they go to school for a long time and yes, they know a lot of big words. You pay them a lot of money to guess at what is making you sick and what can make you better. If you feel intimidated around your doctor it is likely that you view their knowledge and experience to be of more value than your own. When your toilet leaks or your car breaks down don’t you call a plumber or a mechanic?

So when you are sick, wouldn’t you simply rely on a doctor because you know they are qualified to get the job done?

Remember that doctors go to school for many years to get the specialized knowledge patients need to feel comfortable in their abilities. That knowledge should not be intimidating to you.

What are Your Personal “Buttons” with Doctors?

If you find that your doctor is intimidating it might have more to do with personal “hot buttons” than that doctor’s attitude. Maybe the doctor speaks too fast or with too much panache and these don’t appeal to your tastes. Maybe you prefer one gender over another. While some might argue discrimination, the most important thing to remember when you visit the doctor is that you need to trust they want the best options for you. If you can’t understand them and they won’t slow down, get another doctor. If you are a woman and you prefer a female clinician, ask for one!

Reframing These Empowering Beliefs

You are the patient. You are in charge of your health. Doctors have the dutiful task of serving you. If you feel intimidated, remember that they can’t do their job without patients to treat and the good doctors know that your comfort and care is the most important thing. You have the right to shop around for a doctor the same way you would shop around for a new car or a new home. You have the right to seek out the best possible doctor for your care.

 

Filed Under: Blog, Taking Your Power Back, Your Body, Your Terms

Your Body, Your Terms: Educate Yourself

September 18, 2015 by Dolores

When it comes to your health, you need to be in control; and when it comes to your health care, you need to be in charge. It is your body, after all, so you should approach your health care on your own terms.

Educate Yourself About Your Symptoms

One of the most important things you can do to take control of your health care is to educate yourself about your symptoms. For example, you should understand the difference between a dull, sharp, throbbing, and shooting pain. You should know how to describe the level of pain or discomfort. It could also help you to learn where your organs are located; even if your assessment is inaccurate, by telling your doctor the location of your pain or discomfort can better help them determine the avenue for care.

Symptoms: No Place to Fear

It is also important, when assessing your symptoms that you take an honest approach. You cannot be afraid that your symptoms might lead to a scary diagnosis; after all, you have to know what you have if you want to get the right treatment. Yes, this part of health care is scary, but you will be much better off addressing the terrifying truth—even if it means facing a difficult future—than letting this condition catch up with you.

Conducting Symptom Research

This should be the basis of your symptom research. Always be sure to approach your symptoms focused specifically on the exact symptoms you have. Again, learning where organs are located and understand the different classifications of pain will help you to better research your symptoms.

Discussing Symptoms With Your Provider

Of course, a little anatomy lesson and an honest analysis of the characteristics of your symptoms will make it easier to discuss them with your health provider. This is the most important part of the self-assessment, as it is the thing that will ensure your provider gives you the most accurate care—and treatment—for your condition.

Filed Under: Reenergizing Healthcare, Your Body, Your Terms Tagged With: control, power, self confidence, symptoms

Why Do We Find Doctors Intimidating?

September 11, 2015 by Dolores Fazzino

Going to the doctor can be an intimidating experience. Obviously, you make an appointment to see a medical professional because you are experiencing physiological issues that you cannot explain or classify. Doctors, of course, have years of study to prepare them for even many more years of experience to properly help you determine what is wrong.

And knowledge can be intimidating. Trying to talk to someone who has more knowledge than you can certainly make you feel inferior. The same thing goes for experience: trying to talk to someone who has vastly more experience than you on a particular topic can make you feel inferior.

Well, the feeling of inferiority comes from valuing the knowledge or experience of another person over your own. So it is important to remember that there is no need to feel inferior when speaking to your doctor because that is the reason you are seeing them in the first place: because they have knowledge and experience that you do not have.

However, if you have a good doctor, they should be able to communicate with you in a way that feels casual and personal. This is another reason people sometimes feel intimidated by their doctor: because they use language that is hard to understand.

Well, it is important to remember, too, that the world of medicine has a bit of its own language and, more importantly, doctors are human. This means that they are going to use the language they learned when describing your condition or the procedure.

But even if your doctor might have trouble communicating with you as a patient, you can always be proactive and just ask your doctor for clarification. Be aware that your knowledge of the medical world is, obviously, limited; embrace it and use it as a launching point to invite your doctor to communicate with you in a way that makes sense to you.

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